WEEKDAY WEDDINGS: A Closer Look At the City Hall Celebration

The brief city hall ceremony or ‘weekday wedding’ is every bit as significant as a formal celebration planned months ahead. While the nups and after party are a microcosim of the standard bash, city hall weddings are ideal for couples who don't want to bother with florists, caterers, and wedding planners.  Civil ceremonies have gone through new approval and popularity. Some couples simply prefer the ease of a short ceremony with a few friends and family to share in the festivities. City hall offers a fast, meaningful ceremony, and in the case of the opulent ones like San Francisco and NYC --the use of a palace for half an hour for the price of the marriage license and officiant. Now that's a real bargain!

If you go with this simple ceremony, you'll likely be dressing yourself differently from the traditional bride. Because civil weddings usually take place on weekdays when government offices are open to perform rites, chances are you’ll be in a street-length suit or dress—possibly white, but it doesn’t have to be. Any color or length is fine as long as you look good in it and feel special.  Whether or not you go all out as a bride is your decision. Realize, though, you’ll be dressing for a lifetime of shared memories, so it’s worth the effort to opt for a few ‘bride’ touches here and there.

  Below are some guidelines for putting together the look you want. For practicality, abbreviate. Maneuvering about in a big poufy veil and dragging a six-foot train behind just doesn't work for the bride on the move. Think of wearing a shoulder-length or pouf veil. Or a hat. Length from your head is best going up or sideways rather than down. Now, let’s look at some of the hemlines you might consider as a non-traditional bride.

Mini: Well above the knee; a light-hearted and playful length.

Just Above the Knee: Popular length for the casual bride. Ideal for suits and cocktail dresses.

Just Below the Knee: Another great length for a suit or cocktail dress. Proportion flatters many figure types and a range of ages.

Ballet Length: full skirt falling just above the ankles. Sometimes worn with tulle petticoats.

Asymmetrical: Irregular hemline falling diagonally.

Handkerchief: Another irregular hemline that falls to a point, more a treatment than length as the longest point usually falls anywhere from the knee down. Typically in sheer fabrics like chiffon. Very chic and in now.

Ankle Length: An inch or two above the floor.

Floor Length: Yes, this is a good choice for an informal wedding as long as the dress is simple in its cut, doesn’t have a great deal of volume in the skirt or train extending beyond the heels. Picture a slip dress or tailored suit.

SILHOUETTES

Silhouette is really the shape and style of your dress—the overall effect of how you’ll be seen and see yourself. Think of silhouette as the foundation of your look. Below are a few to consider:

Suit: Elegant in floor length; chic in shorter versions. White wool is most striking especially on winter brides. An ideal look for the night time or hotel wedding, especially with a hat.

A-line or Princess: Flatters most figure types. It’s fitted through the bodice and can have a slight to moderate flare in the skirt.

Fitted Sheath: Fitted through the bodice and skirt. Go just above or below the knee and you have Audrey Hepburn’s dress in Breakfast at Tiffany’s (think white though)—perfect for a cocktail reception.

Relaxed Sheath: As in slip dress. Add some delicate beading or hand painting and this makes for another cocktail wedding knock-out. Again, any length is great for this style. Try a short veil or pouf of netting as a headpiece.

Empire: Fitted in the bust and flared below. Wear a mini in this silhouette and you have a Baby Doll cut. Longer styles in the empire lean to a more elegant 1930s look, particularly styles with asymmetrical or handkerchief hemlines. All lengths would be elegant at evening weddings.

Hourglass Dress: A natural waistline atop a full skirt. Dior claimed fame to the Hourglass in 1947 once restrictions were taken off fabric. Now can you picture it? Those French Models in fashion lay-outs with wasp waistlines atop full skirts? A beautiful silhouette in any length.

Shirt-waist Dress: A more relaxed version of the hourglass—a classic and tailored look, usually with billowing sleeves. Can be made out of lightweight fabrics like organza, chiffon and crepe, as well as medium weights like linen. Nice for a garden reception, especially with a wide- brimmed hat.

Now that you have some idea of what your dress can look like, finally, a word about the groom. For an informal wedding, he can wear anything stylish from his best suit to something more laid-back like a navy sport coat or silk shirt and khakis. Clothing here follows the simplicity of the celebration, and one of the most important things you and your groom need keep in mind is, informal weddings are brief and the attire though stylish and even elegant, is never ultra formal. War brides of the 1940s had swift weddings with quick preparation out of necessity. Today couples are fortunate. The informal wedding is a choice having more to do with lifestyle and many times the belief, less is more…

CREDITS

Photography: Dominic Colacchio

Dresses and Headwear: Amy-Jo Tatum Bridal Couture

MUAH: Necia Whitmore

Venues: Crocker Galleria &

Moscone Center, San Francisco