SHOPPING 101: THE SALONIf you don’t already have a gown and decide to customize rather than custom design, you’re going to have to go shopping. Many publications and websites refer to this phase as the ‘dress search’. Looking online or perusing magazines is usually the beginning. Once your search starts feeling two dimensional, like you want to actually see the reality version, you need to get out and physically look. I call this stepping into and feeling what its like to actually wear a gown, window shopping. You’ll need to try on several to find out what looks best. Whether you order your dress from a salon and customize it later or choose to have one custom made, there’s nothing like actually putting on ready made gowns, looking at yourself in a three-way mirror to evaluate what cut and line look best on your figure type. If you think about it, any gown ordered off a sample in a salon, is, in a sense, a custom gown. Think about it--You're going to add your own version of headpiece and/or veil. Add shoes, gloves, and other accessories and voila! you have a real custom look? Your gown though will be all the more customized. You probably already have a sense of ‘owning’ how you’re going to embellish it once you find it.
BrideMail@Bridechic.com I’ve found a dress online I like and a salon in my area carries it so I made an appointment to try it on. Because I plan on adding a hood to the neckline of whatever dress I choose, it’s really important I find the right one. Naturally I want to explore other shopping alternatives. Is the salon with all the big white dresses my only choice? .
No. But the first thing the typical bride does is set out for the bridal salons in hopes of finding the right dress. Since salons are so dedicated to wedding gowns we’ll go over buying one here before exploring other shopping alternatives. First of all salons vary. Some feature apparel solely for the bride; others branch out into special occasion and formalwear sections. In metro areas the focus gets more concentrated. Boutique chic lofts offering edgy innovations serve a different bride than the wall-to-wall plush of department stores like Bonwit Teller. All these establishments though work in a like way. Most keep a stock of designer samples in house. Once you decide on a gown, you’re measured; any special requests are made (if the designer/manufacturer offers any) you put down a deposit then the order is placed with the designer or manufacturer. Turn around time for delivery runs 4-6 months. This means once your order reaches the designer’s workroom, eventually the gown is made according to your measurements. Upon delivery the salon can arrange (for a price) any necessary alterations. This is of course optional. You can take your dress to any outside seamstress you want. So the typical salon works by placing an order rather than simply wrapping up your gown, ringing up the transaction and sending you out the door with it. In other words, for all good things one must wait. With that in mind, before you reach into your wallet and put down the proverbial deposit, here’s a bit of inside info worth checking out.
BrideMail@Bridechic.com I love the top of your ‘Sabrina’ dress. Its perfect for me except the skirt is way off what’s ideal for my proportions. I do however like another version of skirt you offer on the ‘Juliana gown’. Is there some way I can exchange these pieces to get what I want?
MORE “LOVE THAT GOWN BUT IF ONLY. . . .” ISSUES #1 Love that gown but if only it wasn’t a bridesmaid dress.
BrideMail@Bridechic.com I found this great dress online. It’s a simple, strapless sheath that’s perfect for wearing under that white organza dress you’re designing for me. The problem is, it’s a bridesmaid dress and the lightest color it comes in is tan.
Believe it or not, stumbling across that bridesmaid dress broadened my client’s options. We’d planned on designing a sheath to go under the nearly finished organza dress but she hadn’t decided on the exact style yet. That is, till she saw the abovementioned sheath online, which, incidentally, we found out did come in a white silk dupioni and cost a fraction of what I would have charged. Wearing a white bridesmaid dress when you’re a bride is a sort of trend going on now. Since the bank and savings and loan crisis brides have been cutting costs and ordering bridesmaids dresses is one way to save. Whole sections of designer websites are devoted to bridesmaids. Also notice bridesmaid dresses don’t look like those Muriel’s Wedding atrocities anymore; most have morphed into simple, unadorned styles, making them the perfect backdrop for customizing into a bridal gown. The bridesmaid dress option is the way to go if: 1.) You’re using it as a foundation on which to customize with other adornments. 2.) You want a more low- key or informal look, sans the train, lace and beadwork. 3) You want color. 4.) You’re price conscious. Bridesmaid dresses cost a fraction of what a bridal gown costs. For brides who don’t want to be in white or ivory, bridesmaid dresses are perfect. They come in just about as many colors as Crayola crayons from the palest pastels to deepest jewel tones. Once you start looking online, keep in mind not all manufacturers use first-rate fabrics and/or construction. Try to find styles in high-grade silk or silk blends. Especially if you plan on customizing, where you’ll need as clean and pure a background as possible. And always remember, the simpler the dress, the more perfectly it should be made.
BrideMail@Bridechic.com I saw one of your dresses online and thought I’d finally found The One. But once I checked out the price, I almost fell over backwards. The person who emailed back said the fabric was one of those hard to get imports and that’s the reason for the high price. My question is, can I get this dress made in a less expensive fabric?
THANK GOD FOR SAMPLE SALES
Suppose your wedding is next month and you need that gown now? Or suppose you love the sample but it’s just been discontinued? Or else you love the sample but can’t afford to special order it? You do realize next season a whole new stock will be arriving? This means your salon will have to get the old out of the way. And all those gowns with full skirts just hanging there take up space, or haven’t you noticed? While sizes are limited and samples mostly run sizes 6-8-10, the good news is, sample markdowns usually go half off, sometimes less. Some salons have sample sales they advertise a couple times a year while others offer marked down stock continually. Absolutely love that gown you just tried on? Offer to buy it. Yes, that same gown. Ordinarily samples are not for sale but this may be the time they’re moving in all those spring confections and need to move out that gown you want, especially if it is in less than perfect shape, which, more than a few samples tend to be. Now, a word about wear and tear: Before you start bargaining, check out how much or how little that soon-to-be-yours gown has been tried on by others. This means really looking at it inside as well as out. Is it ripped, stained, the hem soiled and need cleaning? The overall condition of most samples has a lot to do with how the salon takes care of their stock. Still, figure on dry cleaning whether the gown looks like it needs it or not. After a good clean and press it will seem revived both inside and out and take on a new life of its own. So the question is, who pays the cleaning bill? In some cases, the more service oriented the establishment, the more accommodating they’ll be. As for alterations, you might save them for when you have your gown customized. If you are customizing, any nipping in of the waist or shortening of the hemline might have to wait anyway.
TRUNK SHOWS Suppose you’re in love with one particular designer’s collection. Unfortunately, due to space and overhead issues, your salon can only stock one or two of her samples—not her entire collection. Still, you want to actually get a real live look at those 20 other gowns you saw online. In that case keep a lookout for her trunk show. A trunk show is when a designer like Reem Acra makes a personal appearance at a nearby salon or department store, say Friday and Saturday only. What’s great about this is she or her representative will be there along with the entire (yes entire) collection. So all those gowns the salon doesn’t carry in sample form you can finally get a look at. In addition, you can actually meet and pick your favorite designer’s brain—ask about any changes in fabric, lace, color, etc. The result: your best opportunity to get your dress customized. Keep in mind, just like Cinderella’s Ball, trunk shows have a time line. You pretty much have to know what you want and make your choice before the weekend is over. Therefore trunk shows are not ideal for the browsing phase of your search. Hopefully you’ve shopped prior and at length so you know for sure that this is it, this is The Gown. If you think you’ll be placing an order at the trunk show, be ready. Bring along the shoes and kind of underwear you’ll be wearing your wedding day in order to have measurements taken correctly. And do make an appointment. Just imagine if Vera Wang showed up this Saturday at Saks. Enough said. FYI: Though this is an in-store event, gowns at trunk shows are rarely reduced and typically go full retail. FYI: Miss that trunk show last week? Or maybe no salon in your area carries the designer you want. If you absolutely love a particular designer consider traveling to her flagship store. There you can see her complete collection. Also, if you want something custom designed, think about becoming one of her private clients. True, you’d have to invest much more time and money, traveling to New York or LA. But if you happen to in be the metro area of your favorite star, do check into this. Although you won’t hear it publicized much, most top designers have a flagship store as well as custom clientele they cater to.
WHAT TO EXPECT ONCE YOUR GOWN IS DELIVERED Not long ago, the retail bridal salon not only offered alterations once a gown was delivered, most had customizing services available. Customizing services consisted of everything from making hand-rolled rosettes adorning a bodice, to adding layers of gossamer fabric over a train. Special effects and personal touches were the pride of many salons as well as designers and seamstresses practicing their craft there. Once the standard, its hard to find a salon these days willing to customize past the alteration stage. Figure your salon will alter your gown and most likely do a professional job of it. But generally, after that you’re on your own. So what’s the difference between an alteration and customizing? An alteration is a necessity. You have your first fitting and find the waist too big once you get the gown on. Nip, tuck, and stitch. Customizing on the other hand is not a necessity. Customizing is ornamental. Customizing is a highly skilled artistic craft. There are a few salons, typically the boutiquey smaller ones—that will do some sort of customizing if you buy a gown there. My final words on this: Customizing is better left to specialists and sometimes a salon can recommend you to one. If you plan on customizing once your gown is delivered, get advise on whether the alterations should be factored in with the price of customizing.